Nail Biting-Let Neuro-Linguistic Programming Offer a Hand for
Quitting
If you have ever attempted
to quit your nail biting habit, you know just how challenging
is. Perhaps you have put on bandages or gloves over your
fingertips, or tried bitter-flavored nail polish. Perhaps they
worked for a little while, but ultimately you found yourself
with ragged nails and bleeding cuticles once
again.
The reason that a superficial
nail biting cure is not likely to succeed makes sense when the
cause of the behavior is investigated. The nail biting habit is
inveterate and comparable in nature to other stress-related
manners, such as skin picking and hair pulling. Fundamentally,
these actions meet a natural desire; thus if the urge is not
satiated or eliminated, the behavior will resume. No amount of
bitter nail polish will curb the need for nail biting or give
the sense of relaxation you feel after gnawing on your
nails.
In that
vein, a person cannot ever cure nail biting, but do not
despair: Thankfully, time-tested treatments that can help
recovery are available. There is a three-step treatment
that can successfully stop nail biting if you are
motivated to do so. The elemental step entails
hypnosis.
For those unfamiliar, hypnosis
brings to mind images of people watching swinging pendulums or
barking on stage for others' enjoyment. Rest assured that at
its core, hypnosis is simply profound relaxation in a
trance-like condition. Many erroneously think that hypnotic
trances are like sleep, but you are fully conscious and awake,
simply exceedingly relaxed and amenable to
suggestion.
In fact, most of people undergo
some form of self hypnosis every day, during periods
when we disregard many of the disruptions around us to
concentrate on an individual task while remaining fully
conscious. It occurs easily while we read, watch television
or daydream.
Because nail biting is related to
stress, the more fully you can work through and release anxiety
and tension, the more triumphant your commitment to stop nail
biting will be. The top aim of hypnotherapy is to show you how
to live in a relaxed state at all
times.
You are encouraged to try
numerous hypnosis methods, such as traditional hypnosis,
Ericksonian hypnosis and Neuro-Linguistic Programming
techniques, to add to both the state of relaxation and to reach
a more complete sense of welfare. A qualified hypnotherapist
can tell which kind is ultimately best for you.
The next step to curbing a nail
biting habit is to become aware of the behavior since nail
biting is performed unconsciously. Hypnotherapy is very helpful
for this stage, as communicating with the unconscious mind to
elicit the conscious mind's knowledge that you are going to
bite your nails can help greatly. This allows you to make the
assessment to bite your nails. And given that hypnotherapy has
already aided to improve the main stress, the dominant desire
to bite your nails has been significantly reduced, or even
abolished.
The last step for using
hypnotherapy to stop biting nails is to totally eliminate the
principal wish to chew or bite. There are techniques that can
actually program you with a craving to give up biting your
nails, because just as habits can be quelled with help from
hypnotherapy CD's, they can be
started.
Hypnosis CD's are effective with
stopping behaviors like biting your nails because, even
though the treatment will not suddenly make complete
strength of will, it can support your motivation and
guarantee that options you decide during a stress-free state
will still continue when you are under stress. Further,
hypnotherapy is able to help you communicate with your
unconscious mind to get it to support your conscious mind so
both entities support your end. It should be noted that some
likely hypnosis clients have a worry of having ideas planted
or of experiencing "hidden" memories while in a trance. Rest
assured that hypnotherapists are officially trained and
accredited and abide by the strictest ethical and
professional rules. The processes used by hypnotherapists to
make useful suggestions to your unconscious are entirely
distinct from those used for memory recall or age
regression. So the use of hypnotherapy for efficiently
stopping the impulse to bite your nails will not result in
unintended behaviors or memories.
CONCLUSION: Nail biting is driven like any other,
and resolve only is generally not enough to abandon the
behavior. Using hypnotherapy or hypnosis CDs and all other
resources available will more likely result in a
comfortable, successful end to your nail biting.
Alan B. Densky, CH has spent years
helping thousands of clients
with nail biting hypnosis. His Hypnotherapy
website offers lots of Free assistance including Free
hypnotherapy videos, a hypnosis research
index, and a hypnosis blog where you can ask
questions.

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